The Support That Kept Me Going When I Wanted to Stop
Posted: 2025-06-06
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"You’ll fail." People say this a lot to those who dream big. Sometimes they say it out loud, and sometimes they just look at you like you won’t make it.

What they really mean is: “Your dreams are too big. Don’t try too hard.”

We live in a world where people often tell us to be safe instead of following our dreams. They want us to fit in instead of being different. It’s not because they’re trying to be mean, it's just that being afraid feels easier than trying something new.

With so many people doubting you, it helps to have one person who believes in you before anyone else does. For me, that person was my mom.

A Humble Beginning with Strong Determination

She was raised in a poor village where people lived simply and had few chances to succeed. Money was scarce, and big opportunities were rare. The life she knew was full of hard work, and not many people could think about doing great things. Life was more about working hard to get by than chasing dreams or doing what you love.

She didn’t have the internet, fancy schools, or people to guide and inspire her. But she had something even better: a strong belief in learning, and an even stronger belief in me.

She worked as a teacher for more than 35 years. She taught many kids, but the one she cared about teaching the most was me.

I remember seeing her stay up late getting her lessons ready. She looked tired, but she never gave up. She didn’t just teach in the classroom she showed that you’re never too old to learn and grow.

How Her Faith Built My Confidence

When I was growing up, I had big dreams that were a little different from what most people expected. I liked to explore, make new things, and think in my own way even if it wasn’t always the usual path.

While some people doubted me or said I would fail, my mom was different.

She listened to me. She cheered me on. She believed in me.

And when I made mistakes which happened a lot she never said, “I told you so.” Instead, she told me that failing isn’t the end. It’s just a way to learn and a step needed to reach something important.

Whenever I faced problems, her words were stronger than the doubts I heard: "You can do this. I believe in you."

She didn’t do anything big or fancy. But just being there for me, quietly giving up things for my sake, and always believing in me helped build the life I have today.

Learning and Growing Together Over the Years

What I remember most is that she didn’t just support me, she learned and grew with me.

When I had trouble understanding something, she didn’t ignore it. She tried to help.

She would read and learn too not because she had to, but because she wanted to.

Her love for learning made me want to learn more too.

In a world where older people are often told to let the younger ones take over, my mom showed something different. She proved that you’re never too old to learn, and that being curious is one of the best things you can be.

She didn’t need praise or attention. Her biggest rewards were the small wins that came from the lessons she taught us.

Understanding the Reason Behind My Determination

When I look back at everything I’ve done and the strength I’ve built, I know a lot of it came from her.

Her belief made me brave. Her patience made me strong. Her sacrifices reminded me that success should never make you forget your roots. Everything she gave me helped build the person I am today and I try everyday to carry her values with me in all that I do.

People often think success means having a big job, lots of money, or awards.

But to me, real success comes from strong values and we usually learn those at home.

In a world where everyone has something to say, sometimes just one steady voice can keep you strong.

For me, that voice was and always will be my mom’s.

All through my life, my mom has been the quiet strength behind everything I’ve done. She didn’t need fame or rewards, her biggest gift was always believing in me. In a world that often says success is about money or fancy jobs, she showed me it’s really about staying kind, working hard, and never giving up.

She didn’t just tell me what to do, she showed me by living it. Because of her, I learned how to dream big, learn from mistakes, and keep going no matter what.

As I keep working toward my goals, I always hear her voice in my heart: “You can do this.” If you have someone who believes in you like that, be thankful.And if you don’t, maybe someday you can be that person for someone else. Just like my mom was for me.

Who is the person in your life that lifts you up, or how will you be that person for someone who needs it?

/A mother’s belief turned dreams into strength proof that quiet support builds bold futures.
ByBinu Bhasuran